A loss of compion? (reposted).?

You need to talk to a psychologist or psychiatrist-only they can truly tell you if you are developing a disorder or if the things that you are experiencing are normal. There are so many things that can contribute to what is happening to you that a professional would need to know more than just the 9 things you listed. I would express your concerns to a parent or school counselor who should be able to point you in the right direction. Adolescence is really a tough time, but it should not be impossible to deal with.