How can I reduce my anger?

Why would he still be your bf if he seems to make you angry, you notice that he is shallow, this relationship is in question , he is not a consoler, what is he? He does not seem to be your friend either? You may have some issues to resolve within yourself, and see if you really have a need for this bf in your life right now Would a temporary separation help you to sort out the issues, of anger, and once you feel better about your own interior peace ,you could resume it again and see if there is anything worthwhile in it to continue.